Family law

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How we help / Family law

Family law, without the drama.

Whatever your situation, we can help.

What we help with

Parenting arrangements

Where the children live, time with each parent, school holidays, relocation and changing existing orders.

Property settlement

Dividing the house, savings, debts and super, for married and de facto couples.

Consent orders & agreements

Turning what you've agreed into something binding: consent orders or a binding financial agreement.

Mediation

We prepare you for and attend family dispute resolution, including Legal Aid mediations.

Family violence & safety

ADVOs, and making sure any arrangements for the children keep everyone safe.

Court, if it comes to that

Applications and responses in the Federal Circuit and Family Court, from first return to final hearing.

What usually happens

Every family is different, but most matters follow a similar path. Most never reach a final hearing.

  1. 01 First conversation We listen, explain where you stand and check whether Legal Aid could help.
  2. 02 Negotiate We write to the other side and try to reach agreement, sharing financial information where needed.
  3. 03 Mediation Usually required before a parenting case can go to court, unless there are safety concerns or urgency.
  4. 04 Make it official Consent orders if you agree, or a court application if you can't.

Watch the time limits for property

If you want the court to divide property, you generally need to apply within:

  • 12 months after your divorce takes effect, if you were married
  • 2 years after you separated, if you were in a de facto relationship

Missed it? It may still be possible with the court's permission, so talk to us early.

Legal Aid for family law

Legal Aid NSW funds many parenting matters and mediations, and some property matters. We do a lot of this work and can help you apply.

Check if you might qualify

Common questions

Do I have to go to court?

Usually not. Most families reach agreement through negotiation or mediation, and we can make that agreement legally binding.

How much will it cost?

It depends on the matter. We'll give you an estimate in writing before we start, and check whether you're eligible for Legal Aid. See our rates.

The other parent has a lawyer and I don't. What now?

Get in touch and we'll explain your options, quickly if there's a deadline.

What should I bring to our first appointment?

Any court papers, letters from the other side, existing orders or parenting plans, and a rough list of assets and debts.

Talk to us about your situation

Appointments in Lismore, Byron Bay by appointment, our Mullumbimby clinic on the third Wednesday of the month, or by phone and video.

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